If your first true love has broke your heart,how do you forget about her & have your revenge ?

i fell in love for real for the first time with my best friend,she felt it but she just continued to break my heart again and again till i've had it.


she told me that she loves another person eventhough he's married and he has a child.


and that she'll love him forever no matter what.....


i decided to leave her but you can't imagine how hard it is.


after i left her she started to hang out with alot of different guys without taking my feelings in her considerations.


what should i do to forget about her and to remove her from my life


we used to be soooo close we used to see each other everyday and talk for several hours on the phone everyday...


and how can i have my revenge ????????


by the way i couldn't sleep for a whole month......If your first true love has broke your heart,how do you forget about her %26amp; have your revenge ?
well its her life and she is just doing what she wants and you should be supportive of that even if it hurts you to see her with others ... and if you ever truly loved her revenge is not what you should do ... but if you must do revenge watch her very carefully with that other guy who is married and if it seems even close that something is happening between them then tell the guys wife she will probably divorce him and take his child away causing him great emotional distress and thus causing it to her since she loves him.If your first true love has broke your heart,how do you forget about her %26amp; have your revenge ?
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1.) find another girlfriend and go with her somewhere were she would be.


2.) get over it that life trust me when you find another girlfriend you will forget about her.


3.) the only revenge i can think of is get a guy to call that guy shes going out with and act like she cheated on him. she will deserve it
Date the woman she was jealous of or hated the most....
I know how you feel, and just about everyone faces this problem at some point. you dont need to get revenge on her, even though she might not have been understanding about the whole breakup. do your part as an ex. i know it sounds kind of weird, but you need to try to understand her. feelings change. i know that is next to impossible to except, but its true sometimes. BUT, that doesn't mean that feelings cant ever come back. i honestly dont know what is going to happen. and neither do u. so, dont get your hopes up. i know it sounds horrible, but its true. u dont want to be even more heart broken then u already are. there could be more to this breakup then u think. sometimes people can be heartless and cold. its all part of going thru life. but remember: if it doesn't work out with her, she isn't the right one. keep trying :)
forget revenge. it creats an unhealthy obsession and it just harbors negative feelings. plus you'll still feel heartbroken if you get revenge. but then you'll have guilt on top of a broken heart. not a good combo. my suggestion would be to get rid of everything that reminds you of the bad times. then go out and start hanging out with new people. fill up your schedule. keep yourself busy and try not to think about her or obsess over her. if you cant sleep, see someone that can perscribe sleeping meds.