Blah! sexual tension between you and your best friend..?

i'm a lesbian. my best friend (who is also female) knows this and is absolutly ok with it.


but there is sexual tension between us. and there has been even since before she found out (which was in late june)


i feel it. very strongly. and i am pretty sure she does too.


but is there actually a way for me to be sure?


and how to i handle this? i was basically in love with her for a long period of time, and just recently began to get over her. and now all this obvious sexual tension is building up between us, and it is kind of drawing me back to her.


and i dont want that to happen, that much. it was painful falling in love with your straight best frined who spoke to you everyday about the guys she liked and thoguht were hot.


we havent as much as shared a kiss, but there are moments where i am positive she wanted to. we have slept in the same bed and she has.. nervously wandering hands. she and i will speak of anything sexual because we are absolutly comfortable with eachother. we cuddle. we hold hands.


and we occasionally get complealty lost in eachother's eyes.


she and i will lay in complete silence just holding the other in our arms whispering in the darkness with our faces mere inches apart.


its tempting. but she insists she is straight. but she gives me all these (what i find to be) compleatly obvious signs that she isnt.Blah! sexual tension between you and your best friend..?
Ooo juicy :P haha just kidding. Well if you want to, i say go for it! A kiss i mean. It really sounds like she's curious what it would be like to kiss you, and at the very least she's really comfortable around you. One night when you're whispering in the dark really close or something, just go for it! Or if you want, you can say something like ';theres someone i really like'; and when she asks who just kiss her. Haha idk, or make up your own scenario. But you guys sound really close, so even if she is weirded out or something (which i don't think she will be), i feel like it wouldn't be that bad a thing.





Good luck!! :)Blah! sexual tension between you and your best friend..?
haha O.M.G! my friend and i have that SAME EXACT PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?im bi and ive told my friend and shes ok with it.. but she expresses it diffrentley.. but yea hah just wanted to say dat
What you need to do is just sit down and have a talk with her. Ask her ';Hey look well is it all right if I kiss you?'; Well not exactly like that but you knw
I say you should sit her down and have a real heart-to-heart conversation about it.





Losing your best friend over making a move and having it backfire isn't going to be good at all. So what you need to do is invite her out to get a bite to eat or some coffee in a public place, and be like, ';I just wanted to clear the air with you, I love you to death as a friend, but i'm getting the odd feeling like there's something you're hiding from me'; and let her take it from there.





It could be that you're totally misreading her actions, but it could also be that she's too scared to make a move on you.





Good luck!!!
Maybe she just isn't sure. Maybe she is just confused, and I think you should just go with it. Next time it seems like she wants to kiss, kiss her cheek or her forehead and see how she responds. I would suggest you do this at night, before bed. So if she's like ';WTF'; you can just say it was a goodnight kiss. And if she seems like she likes it, it can still be a goodnight kiss..... But in all seriousness, I would just say try and see what happens, don't ask, do. She's gonna tell you that she is straight. But some straight girls change under certain situations.


Hope I helped


Munnster
Don't do anything unless she does..i.e. wait for her to make a move because if you do it first, she could react negatively, even though you think she is giving you all these signs. However if she makes the first move, well you have nothing to lose now!





Also, she could be doing this because she could actually tell you were getting over her. Though she's straight, she could still like the idea of someone liking her, whether a girl or not. So she might have been able to tell you were moving on, and suddenly decided to start showing you ';signs'; again to keep your attention.
Ok so i am completely straight and my friend is straight and we hold hands and sleep in the same bed its all part of being friends.I DONT think you should kiss her because a goodnight kiss could turn into a goodbye kiss and if shes really your friend you wouldnt want to risk it and put her in that akward sitiation. Hope I could help!
Any move on either party could ruin friendship you guys already have. It is possible


That she confused/afraid or just curious and doesn鈥檛 want harm the relationship. Best would leave it be and let it takes it course. If it bothers you and you think you can let her experiment and still be close friends. Next time something happens that you consider intimate and it鈥檚 in good humor. Start talking about things and get the feel if she comfortable about the conversation then ask her feelings. Or you could be sly next time in bed pretend sleep with a wondering hand that way have the excuse of sleeping with wild dream. And mean nothing by it.
Eww thats weird! Im sorry but it is...:P
how do you deal with it if you like someone? you date them, but first get her to admit she's not straight because clearly she's not.