Relationship troubles. I think i've fallen out of love and i dont know what to do.?

I am 15 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for a year. We are very close, he's my best friend and i love him greatly... but in a way that you would love your brother or your mate, not your boyfriend. After about 4 and a half months of going out, we had sex, and i lost my virginity to him. This makes everything much more complicated because now i feel like i have to stay with him because we took that step and made a commitment. i'm really confused now because i dont love him in that way anymore. i dont really find him that attractive and im kind of bored with the relationship. more and more ive been thinking why am in tied down in a relationship at 15??! this is the point in my life where i shouldn't have a boyfriend. i can't talk to my mum about it because she would freak if she found out we had sex. i just do not know what to do. i mean can you even fall out of love? another problem is some days i really want to be with him, but some days everything he does irritates me soooo much. should i or shouldn't i break up with him? if i did, how would i do it so he wouldn't get hurt? please answer this question cause im really confused :/Relationship troubles. I think i've fallen out of love and i dont know what to do.?
I don't think there's a way to break up with someone without them feeling at least a little hurt, if they care about you. But if you're unhappy with the relationship, it would probably be best for both of you in the long-run for you to break up with him. Just don't do it in a way where it seems you're telling him it's his fault. You're right, there's no sense in getting tied down at 15. A lot of people don't marry the first person they lost their virginity to. It doesn't make you a bad person if you don't, or if you don't want to be with him that way anymore. It's normal to fall out of love with people sometimes, if the chemistry or compatibility just isn't there in that way.Relationship troubles. I think i've fallen out of love and i dont know what to do.?
Well I can't really answer all your questions. But you can't end it without hurting him.
Well, well, well! So you believed yourself to be enough of an adult to decide to have sex, but now you come whining to Y!A with an infantile plea for advice on what to do next, now that the fun has worn off the relationship. Some adult you are! Even afraid to tell your Mum about your predicament.





My advice: Now that you've made an adult choice, be an adult about the consequences. Talk to your Mum, get some help from her also in terms of getting you some birth control and more information about STDs and other psychological aspects of sexual relationships. You're such an emotional infant that your relationship with your Mum is more important to you than that with any boy. You are way too immature for marriage or child-rearing, so you'd better re-think your decision to become sexually active and try to delay your next sexual encounter until you are much older and way more grown up.





You can tell your bf the truth: namely that you made a big mistake by deciding to have sex so early in your life. You still like him as a friend, but not as a sexual partner...and that you don't intend to have sex with anyone again for a very long time. Now that would be the grown-up way to handle it. Can you manage that?
Well first of all.... you are only 15 and that's just wrong to have sex at that age. Ask yourself this.....why....would ur mom freak out if she found out? Hmmm? Way to screw up your life right there. And about the whole boyfriend ordeal....if your not happy with him then just simply break up with him. Talk to him in person about how you feel, don't be rude with him because if he still likes you he WILL be upset and most likely say mean things if he is upset. And don't push him away and not let him know what's going on, that will make him as confused as a cow in the desert. And make sure you tell HIM before you tell anyone else because it won't be good if one of your mouthy friends gets to him first. I know all this because I made the same mistake as all of the above.....well obbviiousllyyyy not the sex part cuz I'm not THAT stupid but about the breaking up with the guy. I hurt him...I was wrong... so don't do the same please. Well...good luck!

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