How to ignore a guy who was your best friend and who knew you liked him but he didn't feel the same!Heellllpp!?

We dated 2 years ago..for 2 months and I fell really hard for him!


We broke up coz of really stupid misunderstandings so please don't say that he is an ex for a reason!


He has had 2 girlfriends after me (he faked going out with the 1st one but he has been with the 2nd since 1 year)


He understood I liked him when I ignored him and he forced me to admit it and when I did..he told me to move on and said he loved me as a friend.


I've been getting mad at him lately for no apparent reasons.Its just that I get frustrated at times coz I feel he does somethings intentionally to hurt me(Im not sure about it) I've talked to him about it and he told me to change him but he acts like an ******* sometimes.


So I've started ignoring him but I feel sad coz we were BESSST FRIENDS and we have a really good bonding.He tries to talk but I need to move on..


What should I do? I'm confused! Thanks in advance and dont be rude! :)How to ignore a guy who was your best friend and who knew you liked him but he didn't feel the same!Heellllpp!?
screw the perfessional help!


no offence Ricky^^





okay, but he is right, its been two years girl!


you have got find a way to get over him.


i know its hard cuz you guys used to be really close.


its hard for him too if hes taking glances at you


i guess he misses you but hes trying to move on


and you should too


if you guys are meant to be friends then maybe later in time you guys will start talking again


i believe that there are people being meant to be friends


sometimes couples, but if thats true with you guys, then you guys cant be together now


i also believe that certain times people cant be together


but dont get your hopes up, it may just dissapoint you later


its his fault though, for making things this way


well, i dont know the whole missunderstanding, but it must have been bad.


its both your faults


your fault for missunderstanding to happen, but his fault for not listening and hearing the real story


god, people are so stupid these days!!!


anyway, still obsessing?


well, i honestly dont think you should get perfessional help


i mean, come on! we all can control ourselves, its just hard for some of us, but we can find our own ways to get over things. people just have to work harder at finding that out


and thats what you need to do


just move on, or at least make it seem like you have


examples:


1.when you see him in the hall, take a deep breath(hold it if you have to) stare straight ahead(not at him) and walk right past and focus on where your going


2.in private, think about the good times only you had with him and cry it all off. its like talking to someone and getting something off your chest, showing that you can cry all that hurt and anger and sadness right out. its not good to hold it in.


3.if he glances at you class again, just force your ears and eyes to pay attention to the teacher or your work or on another conversation going on next to you. if he sits in front of you, tell your teacher you want to move up front so you dont really have to deal with seeing him look at you. if you feel his eyes on you, take a deep breath and think about something else.


4.when you get home, find your confort zone. all the time, just dig it up and hold on to it and keep it close to you and feel better.


5.at school, if you need to drown things out, if you have an ipod, slip them on, put the music up as high as you want to drown things out(but dont hurt your ears) and just walk, focusing on the music.


6.you ca read a book too. if its too hard, dont read any romance. period. just read action or something. same thing with watching tv


7.go out with all your friends and do a bunch of crazy stuff. like girls gone wild(not really like that!) lol but you know what i mean, just hang out and focus on how great your friends are, how happy they make you feel. you need him, no one needs a guy. you can be you and live your life without the worries of that boy. you can move on. but only if you believe you can. no doubts, its all about you.


hope i helped and good luck!


:DDHow to ignore a guy who was your best friend and who knew you liked him but he didn't feel the same!Heellllpp!?
Well Babe, you have the makings of a great soap opera going on here. But honestly, it's been two years ago. And you're still obsessing over it!





Professional help may be your only remedy here. Find someone else %26amp; move on. Surely there must somebody out there willing to put up with you %26amp; your neurosis?