';She remembered anything, even events that had not really happened. She lived longer than anyone ever had, and she had been dead long enough to distinguish between life and death. She was my best friend's soul, and the girl I had fallen in love with鈥?quot;
The year was 1763. I forced myself to forget all what Billy had said to me, it was not just the words, but the electricity that had passed through my veins when his hands shook mine in the morning, the gossips we had used to share in school, the pedestrians' bodies shape that curved into Billy's as I wandered down the avenue; any ';Good morning'; reminded me the smile that had spread across Billy's face as soon as he had said it. It was almost anything that made our old friendship even impossible to forget, but I had to, no matter how hard it would be. It had been a year since his funeral, but the days had passed so slowly that I would have counted it as an eternity. I wished he could get out of his coffin somehow and said it had been just a jest, but I shook my head, trying to ignore the idea, because if he had really been joking, he would have probably let me know about it. My father stared at me for a long minute as it began to rain; the drops trickled on my face that it looked as if I was crying. I noticed him approaching and moved aside as I already knew what he was going to say.
';Son, are you okay? He is just a friend, I am sure you will find another one. Come on鈥?quot;
I tried to read his face, but there was no expression on it, his eyes were so sharp and narrow like a hunter, he looked pretty happy about it that a smirk could be seen on the edge of his mouth, but his teeth were too tiny to notice. I raised my head to meet his dark eyes and said
';Just a friend? Billy was not just a friend; actually he was what you will never be!';
By the way, how is my English?Would You Borrow This Book From Your Friend?
I would read it but I am confused about the plot. Are they both guys? Is that quote about the guy who died? Is the main character gay, or does he just love his friend in a friendly way? Who is the girl in the quote? I would still read it. Great english, I thought it was an exert from a book. Hope I can read it some day. :)
XOXO,
morganneWould You Borrow This Book From Your Friend?
I don't know it sounds a little corny... but that's just me, I'm not really into those kind of books... great English though!
';Just a friend? Billy was not just a friend; actually he was what you will never be!' | this not make any sense to me; what was Billy? And what the heck this doesn't make any sense.. Who is who? Who is 'She' in the beginning? Are these two boys that are friends or a boy and a girl? They must be both boys because the Father said ';Son, are you okay?'; And the father was talking about Billy who was a boy.. All you ever say in this story is HE and you mention SHE once... this is very confusing!
I dont mean to be mean but I am just a person who likes to criticize and my teacher says I need to have a little more edge in my tone.
Friday, August 20, 2010
GLBT: What's your coming out story?
Well, first of all, I've been a guy all my life. It just took me some time to come to realize it. My first real recollection of expressing to anyone else my sexual orientation was in 4th grade. That was..hmm, let's see..1989. It didn't really go over well. I told my best friend, and by 5th grade, she was determined that she was going to find me a boyfriend. She asked EVERY guy in my class to 'go out' with me. They all said no. They said I was too much like ';one of the guys';. I first came out as what I thought was ';lesbian'; back in 1996. I was 16 and in high school. The only people I'd ever heard of or seen in the media that were female bodied, yet looked and acted very masculine, and liked girls were called butch lesbians. So that's what I thought *I* was too. Back then, things weren't ';horrible'; for GLBT people, but they certainly weren't like they are now. I grew up in a very conservative, redneck, ';white trash'; type environment in the midwest. Kids in my school were cruel. I was called dyke, bulldyke, carpet muncher, etc. I had kids put their fingers on their heads like horns and ';moo'; at me. I was pretty much ';voted out'; of gym class, because girls in my class were afraid I was going to molest them or something, I dunno...big egos I suppose, because I wanted none of them. They were all snooty bi*ches. But whatever. I was in theatre, and after practice other girls in my high school tried to run me over in the parking lot after practice. I had a lot of vindictive sh*t done to me by girls I played with on the softball team.
When I graduated high school, I got tired of the abuse, and decided I was going to learn how to stand up for myself. So I joined the Marine Corp. Yeah..when you tell someone you have military combat skills to know how to take down a 300 pound man with one hand, it tends to instill a little fear and intimidation in people. :D But in boot camp, there I saw OTHER very masculine females who had a ';I'm not taking sh*t off anyone'; type attitude. It was then that I started falling in love with butch women. Omg, they just make me MELT. But, after getting out of the military, and associating with the ';lesbian scene';, I started to come to realize that this label didn't describe me either. Something wasn't right. Something was missing. I still felt like something inside of me wasn't being exhibited or put out there for others to see just who and what I am.
At the age of 18, I started going through spells of serious depression. I was hospitalized in a psych ward 3 times for suicide attempts. I started to really examine my life and my inner being. It was then that I allowed my gender identity issues to surface, and I decided to face them, instead of thinking ';oh it's just a phase, it will go away'; and ignore it. I first verbalized my thoughts and feelings to my best guy friend, who supported me. He helped me find a therapist and everything.
I started seeing a therapist at the age of 19, but at that time it was only for the depression. By the age of 22, the therapy started to focus on my gender dysphoria. At the age of 22, I was diagnosed with GID (Gender Identity Disorder) and began transition. I started with just dressing, presenting, and living as male. By the age of 24, I started testosterone hormones. On my 25th birthday, I legally changed my name to Riley. Now I'm 29, and living 100% as male. I'm in college (a senior..graduate in December) majoring in medical technology, and living life the best way I know how, in a body that finally feels like 'home'. :-)
Sorry for the novel, but I came out twice. LOL. Please share your story.GLBT: What's your coming out story?
I haven't came out..and i dont think i ever will, bc most all my family is very religious and they all think im the perfect christian guy..i also sing in church and everyone thinks that god gave me this gift for a reason..and i'd like to use it for christian rock..so if i came out theyd all treat me like im an alien and wouldnt accept me..so im planning on changing by myself or trying something like being hypnotized (which my gpa did and it helped him to quit smoking and drinking for good) although id like to experience that a type gay relationship..i couldnt ever come out bc it wouldnt help me at all..jus alienate me...i hope that didnt depress anyone..im not trying to..lol..but i live with it everyday im sure it can't b too much for someone to read
and for the person above me..thats not lame..lol...thats good that they were proud of you..cuz they couldve disowned u..but instead they hugged uGLBT: What's your coming out story?
I have yet to come out.
End of story.
Hopefully this story takes off again this next year when I plan to come out.
';What? So it's wrong to touch my brother's penis? Only gay people do that? I'm a sick freak? Can I touch your penis, too?';
Wow. I don't have a coming out story. No one knows a lot about me, and I haven't labelled myself.
I never came out, I just told a bunch of people
ok Im confused, did you have a sex change at some point? I havent read the whole thing but you say you know youve been a guy your whole life (uhh yeah?) also how could you come out as a lesbian, if your a guy? how could you come out twice? idk im confused
Mine is laammmeee.
:)
My whole family, excluding my 8 year old sister, were visiting my Dad at his workplace, So I figured it would be a perfect time to tell them. We were about to get in the car to go home, and I said, ';Well, I have something important to tell you guys.'; They all looked at me, and I just said, ';I'm gay.'; They asked me if I was joking, I told them no, and I just started sobbing. My mom and dad came over and started hugging me, and told me they were proud of me for being able to tell them. Everything really took its course from there.
The end :D
I'm out, but I never came out. It's complicated, but I'll tell it.
OK, well to start I should probably say that I have always been in love with my best friend. One day about 9 months ago he stayed over my house like he often does. He was acting weird the whole night. A few hours in he chugged a few beers, then just flat out asked me if I was gay. I told him I was, but told him not to tell anybody, because I wasn't ready to come out.
Two months later him, one of our other friends, and I decided to hang out and get wasted one night. I got black-out drunk, didn't remember a bit of the night, and woke up in my bed (I usually don't sleep in my bed when more than one other friend is at my house.) When my friends woke up they decided to show me the videos that the friend I hadn't told had taken of the night before. There were nearly 2 hours of video showing me calling out to my best friend, telling my best friend I loved him, clinging on to my best friend while he was sitting/laying on the couch, and stuff like that. Within the week pretty much everyone I know saw the videos. I never needed to come out.
let's see my story goes..
It was one day in January when my mom picked me up from school. We had just gotten assigned our research papers which were going to be due in about two months. Our topic was in justice and intolerance in America. She gave us a list of topics that were good to write ours on. LGBT issues were on the list of topics and so i was going to pick that one because duh i'm gay. Well when i got into the car i told my mom about my day and stuff. I told her about my research paper and what i was going to do my topic on. I said something about gay issues. Then my mom was like oh really? and i was like yeah. She said then that she did a paper on gay adoption for her humanities class when she was going for her degree. So i thought oh ok. Then she was like why that topic? I was like because i am interested that stuff and because i am gay myself. (BAM I JUST DROPPED THE BOMBSHELL) i didn't even mean to say it. it just kinda slipped out. anyway. that was a majorly awkward car ride. and we talked about it and i cried on her arm the rest of the way home. When i got home i thought she was ok with it just shocked and i knew i would have to give it time to sink in. So the next three days went by and God was my stomach in knots and stuff. It was terrible. But then Friday came and it was just me and my mom at home. She called me into her room and then we e talked about me being gay. She said some hurtful things that i can't even believe she would say to me. And i was like crying so hard like it was unbearable having to hear that from your mom. I was angry at her and when we were over i went into my room and cried myself to sleep. That whole rest of the week and part of the next i cried. My mom then said me that she told my dad and i was like ok. They were like we are going to deal with this as a family. I was like its not a freakin disease. I am just gay its not a big deal. Then it was never really mentioned ever. And then long time passes and about two weeks ago i was in Gainsville for my brothers college orientation. It was night at the hotel me my mom and my dad were sitting by the pool at a table. and my brother was inside watching baseball. We started talking about future and stuff and one way or another we got into talking about jobs and stuff. Then my mom was like i just want you to be happy and successful and doing well and have all the nice things i know you like. And she was like i want you and your wife, Or your significant other who ever you fall in love with to be happy and a great life.
and then i felt a relief because that told me that my mom finally came to terms with it and has accepted me i think. I was so proud of her i just wanted to hug her and she is a great mom she really is. It just took her time to get used to it is all.
lol that was long =D but that's my coming out story.
To me coming out of the closet isn't a very accurate statement. It's more of a revolving door than a closet, always new people and new situations to come out to.
Personally, I figured things out as a freshmen in high school..came out to my best friend sophmore year.. and only a few select people for the rest of high school. My school wasn't the best place to be open, so I didn't fully ';come out'; until the summer following graduation. Told my closer friends personally, and everyone else figured it out through facebook and myspace when I changed my orientation.
I'm in college now and have since been open to everyone, if they ask. Came out to my mother over spring break. Extended family are the only ones who don't yet know.
Best of luck for those who have yet to come out, it's a lifelong process but you'll feel better once you take the first steps.
i have yet to haha. my friends know though. i just said it and they were like ';yeah we know'; :P
when school began in fall 2008, i got a new friend in my art class. we magically got placed next to each other, and we hit it off quickly. i told her two months later (in october) that i was bi. at first, she didn't believe me. then, she did... and she understood so well. maybe a little too well. i began to get feelings for her in the next few months. then in january this year, she came out to me and told me straight up that she likes me. she has ever since, and we're just taking it slow now. since that time, i've told my little brother, my dad, and all of my friends that are important to me.
each one understands and accepts completely.
(:
I figured out I was gay in a way most others didn't. I started watching porn at a young age I didn't understand what I was looking at so as years went on I looked at it again come to realize hey that guy is hot I saw a female and thought it was the grosses thing ever so yeah I got older I forced myself to like girl didn't work out so much I was scared and confused about how life worked I came out and wished I didn't come out but I did and faced the bad reactions not a good experince.
I first came out to one of my friends that i had feelings for in the beginning of 2007. I sent her an email, because i was too afraid to tell her face-to-face. She emailed me back saying that she doesn't care if i'm bisexual. She said that she understood my feelings for her, but she doesn't swing that way, but we can still be friends. After i came out to her, it took me two years to tell the rest of my friends. The reason that it took that long is because my friends aren't exactly ';gay friendly.'; So when i told my one friend an IM i was really scared. I sent her an IM purposely when she was offline. She didn't say anything about it for days. Then i brought it up and she admitted that she doesn't feel comfortable around gay people, but it's not that way for her when she's around me because she said that i'm one of her best friends. I didn't really tell my other friend on my own, even though i was planning to. She found out while i was in a conference on IM with her and my other friend who knew that i was bisexual. I had an icon up that said something about being bisexual. She pmed me and asked me about it. Then i told her and she said that she doesn't care, that we're friends and if i'm not straight, it's fine with her. I told my other friend through a note. I gave it to her and she didn't say anything for days. But then she gave me a note. The note said that she doesn't care, and she told me one of her secrets.
When i told my parents (my mom and uncle), it was scarey. I asked if i could talk to them both, so we were in the kitchen. I kept delaying it, but then my uncle said to hurry up and tell them. I took a deep breath and explained to them that i also like girls. My mom started to cry and my uncle just laughed. He said that i was too young to know. My mom stopped her crying and agreed with him. They now think that it's a phase, which it isn't. They both make very homophobic comments around me more than before, which i do not appreciate.
sorry if this is too long lol
When I graduated high school, I got tired of the abuse, and decided I was going to learn how to stand up for myself. So I joined the Marine Corp. Yeah..when you tell someone you have military combat skills to know how to take down a 300 pound man with one hand, it tends to instill a little fear and intimidation in people. :D But in boot camp, there I saw OTHER very masculine females who had a ';I'm not taking sh*t off anyone'; type attitude. It was then that I started falling in love with butch women. Omg, they just make me MELT. But, after getting out of the military, and associating with the ';lesbian scene';, I started to come to realize that this label didn't describe me either. Something wasn't right. Something was missing. I still felt like something inside of me wasn't being exhibited or put out there for others to see just who and what I am.
At the age of 18, I started going through spells of serious depression. I was hospitalized in a psych ward 3 times for suicide attempts. I started to really examine my life and my inner being. It was then that I allowed my gender identity issues to surface, and I decided to face them, instead of thinking ';oh it's just a phase, it will go away'; and ignore it. I first verbalized my thoughts and feelings to my best guy friend, who supported me. He helped me find a therapist and everything.
I started seeing a therapist at the age of 19, but at that time it was only for the depression. By the age of 22, the therapy started to focus on my gender dysphoria. At the age of 22, I was diagnosed with GID (Gender Identity Disorder) and began transition. I started with just dressing, presenting, and living as male. By the age of 24, I started testosterone hormones. On my 25th birthday, I legally changed my name to Riley. Now I'm 29, and living 100% as male. I'm in college (a senior..graduate in December) majoring in medical technology, and living life the best way I know how, in a body that finally feels like 'home'. :-)
Sorry for the novel, but I came out twice. LOL. Please share your story.GLBT: What's your coming out story?
I haven't came out..and i dont think i ever will, bc most all my family is very religious and they all think im the perfect christian guy..i also sing in church and everyone thinks that god gave me this gift for a reason..and i'd like to use it for christian rock..so if i came out theyd all treat me like im an alien and wouldnt accept me..so im planning on changing by myself or trying something like being hypnotized (which my gpa did and it helped him to quit smoking and drinking for good) although id like to experience that a type gay relationship..i couldnt ever come out bc it wouldnt help me at all..jus alienate me...i hope that didnt depress anyone..im not trying to..lol..but i live with it everyday im sure it can't b too much for someone to read
and for the person above me..thats not lame..lol...thats good that they were proud of you..cuz they couldve disowned u..but instead they hugged uGLBT: What's your coming out story?
I have yet to come out.
End of story.
Hopefully this story takes off again this next year when I plan to come out.
';What? So it's wrong to touch my brother's penis? Only gay people do that? I'm a sick freak? Can I touch your penis, too?';
Wow. I don't have a coming out story. No one knows a lot about me, and I haven't labelled myself.
I never came out, I just told a bunch of people
ok Im confused, did you have a sex change at some point? I havent read the whole thing but you say you know youve been a guy your whole life (uhh yeah?) also how could you come out as a lesbian, if your a guy? how could you come out twice? idk im confused
Mine is laammmeee.
:)
My whole family, excluding my 8 year old sister, were visiting my Dad at his workplace, So I figured it would be a perfect time to tell them. We were about to get in the car to go home, and I said, ';Well, I have something important to tell you guys.'; They all looked at me, and I just said, ';I'm gay.'; They asked me if I was joking, I told them no, and I just started sobbing. My mom and dad came over and started hugging me, and told me they were proud of me for being able to tell them. Everything really took its course from there.
The end :D
I'm out, but I never came out. It's complicated, but I'll tell it.
OK, well to start I should probably say that I have always been in love with my best friend. One day about 9 months ago he stayed over my house like he often does. He was acting weird the whole night. A few hours in he chugged a few beers, then just flat out asked me if I was gay. I told him I was, but told him not to tell anybody, because I wasn't ready to come out.
Two months later him, one of our other friends, and I decided to hang out and get wasted one night. I got black-out drunk, didn't remember a bit of the night, and woke up in my bed (I usually don't sleep in my bed when more than one other friend is at my house.) When my friends woke up they decided to show me the videos that the friend I hadn't told had taken of the night before. There were nearly 2 hours of video showing me calling out to my best friend, telling my best friend I loved him, clinging on to my best friend while he was sitting/laying on the couch, and stuff like that. Within the week pretty much everyone I know saw the videos. I never needed to come out.
let's see my story goes..
It was one day in January when my mom picked me up from school. We had just gotten assigned our research papers which were going to be due in about two months. Our topic was in justice and intolerance in America. She gave us a list of topics that were good to write ours on. LGBT issues were on the list of topics and so i was going to pick that one because duh i'm gay. Well when i got into the car i told my mom about my day and stuff. I told her about my research paper and what i was going to do my topic on. I said something about gay issues. Then my mom was like oh really? and i was like yeah. She said then that she did a paper on gay adoption for her humanities class when she was going for her degree. So i thought oh ok. Then she was like why that topic? I was like because i am interested that stuff and because i am gay myself. (BAM I JUST DROPPED THE BOMBSHELL) i didn't even mean to say it. it just kinda slipped out. anyway. that was a majorly awkward car ride. and we talked about it and i cried on her arm the rest of the way home. When i got home i thought she was ok with it just shocked and i knew i would have to give it time to sink in. So the next three days went by and God was my stomach in knots and stuff. It was terrible. But then Friday came and it was just me and my mom at home. She called me into her room and then we e talked about me being gay. She said some hurtful things that i can't even believe she would say to me. And i was like crying so hard like it was unbearable having to hear that from your mom. I was angry at her and when we were over i went into my room and cried myself to sleep. That whole rest of the week and part of the next i cried. My mom then said me that she told my dad and i was like ok. They were like we are going to deal with this as a family. I was like its not a freakin disease. I am just gay its not a big deal. Then it was never really mentioned ever. And then long time passes and about two weeks ago i was in Gainsville for my brothers college orientation. It was night at the hotel me my mom and my dad were sitting by the pool at a table. and my brother was inside watching baseball. We started talking about future and stuff and one way or another we got into talking about jobs and stuff. Then my mom was like i just want you to be happy and successful and doing well and have all the nice things i know you like. And she was like i want you and your wife, Or your significant other who ever you fall in love with to be happy and a great life.
and then i felt a relief because that told me that my mom finally came to terms with it and has accepted me i think. I was so proud of her i just wanted to hug her and she is a great mom she really is. It just took her time to get used to it is all.
lol that was long =D but that's my coming out story.
To me coming out of the closet isn't a very accurate statement. It's more of a revolving door than a closet, always new people and new situations to come out to.
Personally, I figured things out as a freshmen in high school..came out to my best friend sophmore year.. and only a few select people for the rest of high school. My school wasn't the best place to be open, so I didn't fully ';come out'; until the summer following graduation. Told my closer friends personally, and everyone else figured it out through facebook and myspace when I changed my orientation.
I'm in college now and have since been open to everyone, if they ask. Came out to my mother over spring break. Extended family are the only ones who don't yet know.
Best of luck for those who have yet to come out, it's a lifelong process but you'll feel better once you take the first steps.
i have yet to haha. my friends know though. i just said it and they were like ';yeah we know'; :P
when school began in fall 2008, i got a new friend in my art class. we magically got placed next to each other, and we hit it off quickly. i told her two months later (in october) that i was bi. at first, she didn't believe me. then, she did... and she understood so well. maybe a little too well. i began to get feelings for her in the next few months. then in january this year, she came out to me and told me straight up that she likes me. she has ever since, and we're just taking it slow now. since that time, i've told my little brother, my dad, and all of my friends that are important to me.
each one understands and accepts completely.
(:
I figured out I was gay in a way most others didn't. I started watching porn at a young age I didn't understand what I was looking at so as years went on I looked at it again come to realize hey that guy is hot I saw a female and thought it was the grosses thing ever so yeah I got older I forced myself to like girl didn't work out so much I was scared and confused about how life worked I came out and wished I didn't come out but I did and faced the bad reactions not a good experince.
I first came out to one of my friends that i had feelings for in the beginning of 2007. I sent her an email, because i was too afraid to tell her face-to-face. She emailed me back saying that she doesn't care if i'm bisexual. She said that she understood my feelings for her, but she doesn't swing that way, but we can still be friends. After i came out to her, it took me two years to tell the rest of my friends. The reason that it took that long is because my friends aren't exactly ';gay friendly.'; So when i told my one friend an IM i was really scared. I sent her an IM purposely when she was offline. She didn't say anything about it for days. Then i brought it up and she admitted that she doesn't feel comfortable around gay people, but it's not that way for her when she's around me because she said that i'm one of her best friends. I didn't really tell my other friend on my own, even though i was planning to. She found out while i was in a conference on IM with her and my other friend who knew that i was bisexual. I had an icon up that said something about being bisexual. She pmed me and asked me about it. Then i told her and she said that she doesn't care, that we're friends and if i'm not straight, it's fine with her. I told my other friend through a note. I gave it to her and she didn't say anything for days. But then she gave me a note. The note said that she doesn't care, and she told me one of her secrets.
When i told my parents (my mom and uncle), it was scarey. I asked if i could talk to them both, so we were in the kitchen. I kept delaying it, but then my uncle said to hurry up and tell them. I took a deep breath and explained to them that i also like girls. My mom started to cry and my uncle just laughed. He said that i was too young to know. My mom stopped her crying and agreed with him. They now think that it's a phase, which it isn't. They both make very homophobic comments around me more than before, which i do not appreciate.
sorry if this is too long lol
Find out what your birthday actually means??? o_0?
Okay so combine all these to make a sentence....
Pick the number of the month you where born
%26gt;1----I fell in love with
%26gt;2----I ate
%26gt;3----I smacked
%26gt;4----I sang to
%26gt;5----I gave my number to
%26gt;6----I murdered
%26gt;7----I shot
%26gt;8----I danced with
%26gt;9----I choked on
%26gt;10---I went out with
%26gt;11---I kicked
%26gt;12---I hugged
Pick the day (number) you were born on:
%26gt;1-------A homeless guy
%26gt;2-------your crush
%26gt;3-------a banana
%26gt;4-------a fork
%26gt;5-------a super hero
%26gt;6-------a gangster
%26gt;7-------a ninja
%26gt;8-------an ipod
%26gt;9-------my best friend
%26gt;10-------a bystander
%26gt;11-------my dog
%26gt;12-------my girlfriend
%26gt;13-------the computer
%26gt;14-------a football player
%26gt;15-------my neighbor
%26gt;16-------myself
%26gt;17-------a soda
%26gt;18-------a man
%26gt;19-------a pickle
%26gt;20-------a stuffed animal
%26gt;21-------a weirdo
%26gt;22-------a sock
%26gt; 23-------a tissue
%26gt;24-------my pshyciatrist
%26gt;25-------a policeman
%26gt;26-------my brother
%26gt;27-------my sister
%26gt;28-------a baseball bat
%26gt;29-------a dvd player
%26gt;30-------my best friends brother
%26gt;31-------my cell phone
%26gt;
Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:
%26gt;White------Because I was angry.
%26gt;Black-------Because I was drunk.
%26gt;Brown-------Because your mom told me to.
%26gt; Pink--------Because I'm retarded.
%26gt;Red---------Because the voices told me to.
%26gt;Blue--------Because Im hot and I do what I want.
%26gt;Green------Because I hate myself.
%26gt;Purple------Because I'm stupid.
%26gt;Gray--------Because that's how I like.
%26gt;Yellow------Because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars.
%26gt;Orange----Because I love my family.
%26gt;Other-------Because that's what I do.
Haha this is what I got...
I kicked a super hero because the voices told me too.
What did you get?? :0Find out what your birthday actually means??? o_0?
I fell in love with my cell phone because I hate myself.Find out what your birthday actually means??? o_0?
I fell in love with a policeman because I was drunk
I shot a dvd player because I'm stupid
i ate a weirdo because that's how i like
I went out with a football player because the voices told me to.
i went out with a sock because i was drunk
I murdered my girlfriend because I was drunk %26gt;.%26lt;
I kicked a ninja because the voices told me to.
That is so cool.
I ate.....a homeless guy.....because I was angry???
i danced with my best friend because thats what i do.
I ate my brother because I love my family
O_O wow
Pick the number of the month you where born
%26gt;1----I fell in love with
%26gt;2----I ate
%26gt;3----I smacked
%26gt;4----I sang to
%26gt;5----I gave my number to
%26gt;6----I murdered
%26gt;7----I shot
%26gt;8----I danced with
%26gt;9----I choked on
%26gt;10---I went out with
%26gt;11---I kicked
%26gt;12---I hugged
Pick the day (number) you were born on:
%26gt;1-------A homeless guy
%26gt;2-------your crush
%26gt;3-------a banana
%26gt;4-------a fork
%26gt;5-------a super hero
%26gt;6-------a gangster
%26gt;7-------a ninja
%26gt;8-------an ipod
%26gt;9-------my best friend
%26gt;10-------a bystander
%26gt;11-------my dog
%26gt;12-------my girlfriend
%26gt;13-------the computer
%26gt;14-------a football player
%26gt;15-------my neighbor
%26gt;16-------myself
%26gt;17-------a soda
%26gt;18-------a man
%26gt;19-------a pickle
%26gt;20-------a stuffed animal
%26gt;21-------a weirdo
%26gt;22-------a sock
%26gt; 23-------a tissue
%26gt;24-------my pshyciatrist
%26gt;25-------a policeman
%26gt;26-------my brother
%26gt;27-------my sister
%26gt;28-------a baseball bat
%26gt;29-------a dvd player
%26gt;30-------my best friends brother
%26gt;31-------my cell phone
%26gt;
Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:
%26gt;White------Because I was angry.
%26gt;Black-------Because I was drunk.
%26gt;Brown-------Because your mom told me to.
%26gt; Pink--------Because I'm retarded.
%26gt;Red---------Because the voices told me to.
%26gt;Blue--------Because Im hot and I do what I want.
%26gt;Green------Because I hate myself.
%26gt;Purple------Because I'm stupid.
%26gt;Gray--------Because that's how I like.
%26gt;Yellow------Because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars.
%26gt;Orange----Because I love my family.
%26gt;Other-------Because that's what I do.
Haha this is what I got...
I kicked a super hero because the voices told me too.
What did you get?? :0Find out what your birthday actually means??? o_0?
I fell in love with my cell phone because I hate myself.Find out what your birthday actually means??? o_0?
I fell in love with a policeman because I was drunk
I shot a dvd player because I'm stupid
i ate a weirdo because that's how i like
I went out with a football player because the voices told me to.
i went out with a sock because i was drunk
I murdered my girlfriend because I was drunk %26gt;.%26lt;
I kicked a ninja because the voices told me to.
That is so cool.
I ate.....a homeless guy.....because I was angry???
i danced with my best friend because thats what i do.
I ate my brother because I love my family
O_O wow
What am I to do stuck between hubby and best friend?
Okay here is the deal I am married have been for two years in September. His best friend that I have been friends with way before we got married just told me the other night that he has fallen in love with me he recently just went through a divorce with his ex. And he was telling me how he feels and everything I kept telling him hey look I am happily married to your best friends James and I honor my vows and there is no way I am leaving him for you that is just wrong. Well he made me promise not to tell anyone way before he told me he fell in love with me. But my husband is the type were he will go out and just whip his *** and be done with it and go to jail for a night or two. But I cant have that cause we have two small kids to take care of and a third one on the way. I want to tell my husband but he is so hot headed like his dad I dont have a clue what to do. Here recently he has been wanting to go over to his friends house and hang out more and more but I cant be in the same room with him without feeling bad or guilty or anything cause I knwo something I can't tell me husband. What do I do I mean he knows I am happily married to james and he knows I wont leave but since he told me that our friendship hasnt been the same what should I do??What am I to do stuck between hubby and best friend?
U have done the right decision, u r a responsible person, but don't tell your husband, forget it, there could be misunderstanding and fight for nothing.
Don't feel bad or guilty, u have not had sex,
just feelings, be happy that one more nice person loves u because u r a nice person, but keep it on a platonic level.What am I to do stuck between hubby and best friend?
Tell him he has put you in a bad position and for him to back away from you husband or it will leave you with no choice but to tell him because you are uncomfortable around him and prefer not to see him.
Sounds like you need a new friend. You have done nothing wrong. Don't tell your husband. It will somehow be your fault.
Tell him sorry you are married
U have done the right decision, u r a responsible person, but don't tell your husband, forget it, there could be misunderstanding and fight for nothing.
Don't feel bad or guilty, u have not had sex,
just feelings, be happy that one more nice person loves u because u r a nice person, but keep it on a platonic level.What am I to do stuck between hubby and best friend?
Tell him he has put you in a bad position and for him to back away from you husband or it will leave you with no choice but to tell him because you are uncomfortable around him and prefer not to see him.
Sounds like you need a new friend. You have done nothing wrong. Don't tell your husband. It will somehow be your fault.
Tell him sorry you are married
My best friend really did that!?
so this is how it goes... i had a girlfriend and she was great, i also had a best friend and he was all a friend could ever ask for. but him and her didnt see eye to eye and they both hated each other. so as the months went by it only got worse. my and him have been thur everything. and me and her just fell in love. so i had to make a decision. i choose my bestfriend over the girl. so a lil later i go on vaction back home. during it i get a call. its her she tells me she did something horrible. so i call my bestfriend to find out what happend. he starts crying. then tells me i got with your X. i couldnt handle it. i sacerficed my world for this guy that i thought i knew. he got her drunk and mulipianted her mind. telling her how bad of a guy is was. i couldnt beleive this. i was betrayed and i dont know how to handle this. she should have never hung out with him and he should have known to say away from her! he knew i still loved her. did i make the wrong decision pickin him over her?My best friend really did that!?
wow. thats definitely a messed up situation your now in. in my opinion, you dont need either one of them. both of them betrayed your trust! especially after you picked your bestfriend over her. then he went and did this to you. thats ridiculous. obvioulsy they didnt hate each other after all. If i were you, id ditch them both. no point in being friends with someone you can't trust. At least now you know what both of them are all about. Move on, you have bigger fish to fry and these to are definitely not worth your time!My best friend really did that!?
you are ALWAYS supposed to pick friends oh girl firend or boy friends unless the relation ship is SEIROUS
so i think you should have picked him, unless you knew this was goign to happen.
i would tyr to pick neither because they wouldnt be good friends to make you pick like that,
I am sorry to say this, but this is life. Betrayal is a hard lesson to learn. My cousin's best friend and her boyfriend hooked up because of letting them get too close and trusting in them. This is life, don't forgive your best friend or your ex. Move on from both of them!
Fixing what i said before.
caus i sounded like an idoit
true friends are better
besides
there are alot of people who are going to come in and out of your life
yess he's a dooooshe.
i feel u made the right decision....girlfriends/boyfriends come ago...truee friendship lasts for ever if its tru....u are not the one who messed up...u did the right thing...the same thing i would have done....its obvious he was not a true friend...friends don't do that....an she was a skanky hoe to come in between a friendship like that....just think if she did that to you she will do the same thing to him cuz shes a hoe....i know u loved her but maybe u were to good for her...and really to good to have a friend like that
Real friends and real girlfriends don't make you choose between them. If they are real friends and real girlfriends they are mature enough to be friends with you and agree to disagree with each other. There is no law that says your best friend should totally love your girlfriend, nor is there one that states your girlfriend must adore all of your friends. When you get into relationships you should expect that you'll have friends that your gf isn't crazy about--and maybe this just means you hang out with them when she's gone--by mutual agreement, of course. And a real friend supports your choices in your girlfriend even if they don't agree--because they care about you. If they are truly a wonderful friend they'll let you know if they see ';red flags'; and then shut-up so you can make your own decision. And then if it does turn into a fire-ball--they are there for you and don't bother to say ';I told you so';. they let you say it. So, next time, don't be an idiot and let anyone ';make'; you choose between them. Tell them to grow up and deal with what you are doing or move on.
wow. thats definitely a messed up situation your now in. in my opinion, you dont need either one of them. both of them betrayed your trust! especially after you picked your bestfriend over her. then he went and did this to you. thats ridiculous. obvioulsy they didnt hate each other after all. If i were you, id ditch them both. no point in being friends with someone you can't trust. At least now you know what both of them are all about. Move on, you have bigger fish to fry and these to are definitely not worth your time!My best friend really did that!?
you are ALWAYS supposed to pick friends oh girl firend or boy friends unless the relation ship is SEIROUS
so i think you should have picked him, unless you knew this was goign to happen.
i would tyr to pick neither because they wouldnt be good friends to make you pick like that,
I am sorry to say this, but this is life. Betrayal is a hard lesson to learn. My cousin's best friend and her boyfriend hooked up because of letting them get too close and trusting in them. This is life, don't forgive your best friend or your ex. Move on from both of them!
Fixing what i said before.
caus i sounded like an idoit
true friends are better
besides
there are alot of people who are going to come in and out of your life
yess he's a dooooshe.
i feel u made the right decision....girlfriends/boyfriends come ago...truee friendship lasts for ever if its tru....u are not the one who messed up...u did the right thing...the same thing i would have done....its obvious he was not a true friend...friends don't do that....an she was a skanky hoe to come in between a friendship like that....just think if she did that to you she will do the same thing to him cuz shes a hoe....i know u loved her but maybe u were to good for her...and really to good to have a friend like that
Real friends and real girlfriends don't make you choose between them. If they are real friends and real girlfriends they are mature enough to be friends with you and agree to disagree with each other. There is no law that says your best friend should totally love your girlfriend, nor is there one that states your girlfriend must adore all of your friends. When you get into relationships you should expect that you'll have friends that your gf isn't crazy about--and maybe this just means you hang out with them when she's gone--by mutual agreement, of course. And a real friend supports your choices in your girlfriend even if they don't agree--because they care about you. If they are truly a wonderful friend they'll let you know if they see ';red flags'; and then shut-up so you can make your own decision. And then if it does turn into a fire-ball--they are there for you and don't bother to say ';I told you so';. they let you say it. So, next time, don't be an idiot and let anyone ';make'; you choose between them. Tell them to grow up and deal with what you are doing or move on.
Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
im in love,
not your ordinary boy/girl relationship type love,
but girl/girl relationship.
i guess you can say ';lesbian'; type relationship.
thing is my best friend %26amp; i, damn we fell massively in love with each other
never in my 17 years of life would i ever come to imagine fallin in love with my best friend, i mean i would if it were a boy yehknow? but a girl, never that. ever since we met i've had this thing for her, shoot we've been throughout it all, smokin out, skippin school, the drama with both our rents, jealousy cause of who im talkin with or who shes talkin with, fuss %26amp; fights with each other, you name it. we've been through it. sunshine %26amp; rain. i was too afraid to tell her how i deeply felt, i mean she got me caught up like WHOAH! i practically had dreams of us being together, and now i do believe in that one cliche ';dreams do come true';. See it all started with a kiss. she kissed me and from there our love towards each other grew tremendously. i meanno onee has ever made me feel the way she does, I WANNA MARRY HER! spiritually we are married, she told me. she gave me a ring, and so did i. nobody knows about us. we get along with mostly everybody at school, we're inseparablee. to them we're just your typical BFF'S. So anyways, i've been in several relationships before but with dudes. so has she. im not in one at the moment i've called it off with the boy i was talkin too, and have put some boys that were tryna get to me aside, cause of her. she is in one though, but she says she loves me, which i do trust her. but i don't really know if i do. and i feel really bad. also her parents are really into church their christians and their against homosexuals. i really don't know what to do i love her with everything i got. she is the one. with her i feel perfected. im just afraid to get hurt. i could give a fuckless about what people would come out to say about us, but then again those people are her parents, my parents, our families %26amp; friends. and we'll ashame em. i care for her care, if that makes any sense. what should i do?Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
that is a really tough situation! On one hand, you both want to be together, but on the other hand you will probably face ridicule and her parents would be really angry with both of you. And you are at the age where feelings are really intense and yet you still have to live under your parents' rules.
The only thing I can give advice on is that if you two really want to be in a relationship with each other (even if you don't tell anyone else about it) she should not be dating anyone else, guy or girl. Otherwise, she is not as serious about you as you are about her. She should not want to be with anyone else.
As far as your sexuality, I wouldn't worry about that right now. It doesn't matter whether you are gay or straight or bisexual, you will work that out in time. What matters is that you want to have a relationship with her and make it work. That means being faithful and honest with each other. And as far as her parents go, if they are not going to be supportive, as far as I'm concerned it is none of their business.Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
EWW!!!!
2 points thanks!
your/her parents are stupid and closed minded. If you love this girl then marry her, and if your parents love you, they will accept your choice, especially if you're hot, because hot lesbians are awesome! But seriously, you will regret not acting up what appears to be your sincere love. It's nothing to be ashamed of and you've done nothing wrong. If they don't accept who you are, then why bother with them, unless they're supporting you financially, then wait a few years until you are no longer dependent upon them.home theater famous myspace
im in love,
not your ordinary boy/girl relationship type love,
but girl/girl relationship.
i guess you can say ';lesbian'; type relationship.
thing is my best friend %26amp; i, damn we fell massively in love with each other
never in my 17 years of life would i ever come to imagine fallin in love with my best friend, i mean i would if it were a boy yehknow? but a girl, never that. ever since we met i've had this thing for her, shoot we've been throughout it all, smokin out, skippin school, the drama with both our rents, jealousy cause of who im talkin with or who shes talkin with, fuss %26amp; fights with each other, you name it. we've been through it. sunshine %26amp; rain. i was too afraid to tell her how i deeply felt, i mean she got me caught up like WHOAH! i practically had dreams of us being together, and now i do believe in that one cliche ';dreams do come true';. See it all started with a kiss. she kissed me and from there our love towards each other grew tremendously. i meanno onee has ever made me feel the way she does, I WANNA MARRY HER! spiritually we are married, she told me. she gave me a ring, and so did i. nobody knows about us. we get along with mostly everybody at school, we're inseparablee. to them we're just your typical BFF'S. So anyways, i've been in several relationships before but with dudes. so has she. im not in one at the moment i've called it off with the boy i was talkin too, and have put some boys that were tryna get to me aside, cause of her. she is in one though, but she says she loves me, which i do trust her. but i don't really know if i do. and i feel really bad. also her parents are really into church their christians and their against homosexuals. i really don't know what to do i love her with everything i got. she is the one. with her i feel perfected. im just afraid to get hurt. i could give a fuckless about what people would come out to say about us, but then again those people are her parents, my parents, our families %26amp; friends. and we'll ashame em. i care for her care, if that makes any sense. what should i do?Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
that is a really tough situation! On one hand, you both want to be together, but on the other hand you will probably face ridicule and her parents would be really angry with both of you. And you are at the age where feelings are really intense and yet you still have to live under your parents' rules.
The only thing I can give advice on is that if you two really want to be in a relationship with each other (even if you don't tell anyone else about it) she should not be dating anyone else, guy or girl. Otherwise, she is not as serious about you as you are about her. She should not want to be with anyone else.
As far as your sexuality, I wouldn't worry about that right now. It doesn't matter whether you are gay or straight or bisexual, you will work that out in time. What matters is that you want to have a relationship with her and make it work. That means being faithful and honest with each other. And as far as her parents go, if they are not going to be supportive, as far as I'm concerned it is none of their business.Am i the only one a love like this has ever happened to?
EWW!!!!
2 points thanks!
your/her parents are stupid and closed minded. If you love this girl then marry her, and if your parents love you, they will accept your choice, especially if you're hot, because hot lesbians are awesome! But seriously, you will regret not acting up what appears to be your sincere love. It's nothing to be ashamed of and you've done nothing wrong. If they don't accept who you are, then why bother with them, unless they're supporting you financially, then wait a few years until you are no longer dependent upon them.
What to do stuck between husband and his best friend?
Okay here is the deal I am married have been for two years in September. His best friend that I have been friends with way before we got married just told me the other night that he has fallen in love with me he recently just went through a divorce with his ex. And he was telling me how he feels and everything I kept telling him hey look I am happily married to your best friends James and I honor my vows and there is no way I am leaving him for you that is just wrong. Well he made me promise not to tell anyone way before he told me he fell in love with me. But my husband is the type were he will go out and just whip his *** and be done with it and go to jail for a night or two. But I cant have that cause we have two small kids to take care of and a third one on the way. I want to tell my husband but he is so hot headed like his dad I dont have a clue what to do. Here recently he has been wanting to go over to his friends house and hang out more and more but I cant be in the same room with him without feeling bad or guilty or anything cause I knwo something I can't tell me husband. What do I do I mean he knows I am happily married to james and he knows I wont leave but since he told me that our friendship hasnt been the same what should I do??What to do stuck between husband and his best friend?
your between a rock and a hard place. you need to create distance from this friend. he is a home wrecker and not a friend to you or your husband. Getting in a relationship with this man will not, on any terms, heal your relationship with your husband. because of your kids and your marriage you need to focus on that. do your hair, put on make up. spice things up a bit. marriage is something both of you need to work on to last. talk to your husband tell him your worried about your relationship with him. have date nights. don't let your marriage slide through your fingers. get your man baby. good luck and I hope this helps. peace out!What to do stuck between husband and his best friend?
Tell him he needs to know the guy he thinks is his friend is tring to take his wife.I know i would go crazy if my wife didn't tell me then i found out. Seems like your thinking about it or something if u don't tell him.
Either tell your hubby and have the problem be settled now or act like it never happened.
Tell your housband that since you are having another child you should move (so that you will be away from this guy who has fallen for you) That way you get a new house. More room. And you are away from the guy who has fallen for you. that way you dont have to see him around the niehgobrhood or anything. It would be easier to keep the secret from you housband. I know you think the right thing to do would be to tell your housband.....but think you swore with your best friend.
your between a rock and a hard place. you need to create distance from this friend. he is a home wrecker and not a friend to you or your husband. Getting in a relationship with this man will not, on any terms, heal your relationship with your husband. because of your kids and your marriage you need to focus on that. do your hair, put on make up. spice things up a bit. marriage is something both of you need to work on to last. talk to your husband tell him your worried about your relationship with him. have date nights. don't let your marriage slide through your fingers. get your man baby. good luck and I hope this helps. peace out!What to do stuck between husband and his best friend?
Tell him he needs to know the guy he thinks is his friend is tring to take his wife.I know i would go crazy if my wife didn't tell me then i found out. Seems like your thinking about it or something if u don't tell him.
Either tell your hubby and have the problem be settled now or act like it never happened.
Tell your housband that since you are having another child you should move (so that you will be away from this guy who has fallen for you) That way you get a new house. More room. And you are away from the guy who has fallen for you. that way you dont have to see him around the niehgobrhood or anything. It would be easier to keep the secret from you housband. I know you think the right thing to do would be to tell your housband.....but think you swore with your best friend.
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