My best friend really did that!?

so this is how it goes... i had a girlfriend and she was great, i also had a best friend and he was all a friend could ever ask for. but him and her didnt see eye to eye and they both hated each other. so as the months went by it only got worse. my and him have been thur everything. and me and her just fell in love. so i had to make a decision. i choose my bestfriend over the girl. so a lil later i go on vaction back home. during it i get a call. its her she tells me she did something horrible. so i call my bestfriend to find out what happend. he starts crying. then tells me i got with your X. i couldnt handle it. i sacerficed my world for this guy that i thought i knew. he got her drunk and mulipianted her mind. telling her how bad of a guy is was. i couldnt beleive this. i was betrayed and i dont know how to handle this. she should have never hung out with him and he should have known to say away from her! he knew i still loved her. did i make the wrong decision pickin him over her?My best friend really did that!?
wow. thats definitely a messed up situation your now in. in my opinion, you dont need either one of them. both of them betrayed your trust! especially after you picked your bestfriend over her. then he went and did this to you. thats ridiculous. obvioulsy they didnt hate each other after all. If i were you, id ditch them both. no point in being friends with someone you can't trust. At least now you know what both of them are all about. Move on, you have bigger fish to fry and these to are definitely not worth your time!My best friend really did that!?
you are ALWAYS supposed to pick friends oh girl firend or boy friends unless the relation ship is SEIROUS


so i think you should have picked him, unless you knew this was goign to happen.


i would tyr to pick neither because they wouldnt be good friends to make you pick like that,
I am sorry to say this, but this is life. Betrayal is a hard lesson to learn. My cousin's best friend and her boyfriend hooked up because of letting them get too close and trusting in them. This is life, don't forgive your best friend or your ex. Move on from both of them!
Fixing what i said before.


caus i sounded like an idoit


true friends are better


besides


there are alot of people who are going to come in and out of your life
yess he's a dooooshe.
i feel u made the right decision....girlfriends/boyfriends come ago...truee friendship lasts for ever if its tru....u are not the one who messed up...u did the right thing...the same thing i would have done....its obvious he was not a true friend...friends don't do that....an she was a skanky hoe to come in between a friendship like that....just think if she did that to you she will do the same thing to him cuz shes a hoe....i know u loved her but maybe u were to good for her...and really to good to have a friend like that
Real friends and real girlfriends don't make you choose between them. If they are real friends and real girlfriends they are mature enough to be friends with you and agree to disagree with each other. There is no law that says your best friend should totally love your girlfriend, nor is there one that states your girlfriend must adore all of your friends. When you get into relationships you should expect that you'll have friends that your gf isn't crazy about--and maybe this just means you hang out with them when she's gone--by mutual agreement, of course. And a real friend supports your choices in your girlfriend even if they don't agree--because they care about you. If they are truly a wonderful friend they'll let you know if they see ';red flags'; and then shut-up so you can make your own decision. And then if it does turn into a fire-ball--they are there for you and don't bother to say ';I told you so';. they let you say it. So, next time, don't be an idiot and let anyone ';make'; you choose between them. Tell them to grow up and deal with what you are doing or move on.