Monday, August 16, 2010

My best friend's boy friend secretly loves me..! HELP D:?

okay.D: well my best friend falls for guys really easily and well a couple of weeks ago she met thiss really hot boy. he asked her out.. she said yes.. blah blah blah. Okay, so i got my bff's boyfriend's number and started textinq him..just to be nice. andd so i'm likee heyy, i'm your gurl friends bff. andd hes likee oh cool wanna go to the pool with mee tomorrow..and i'm likeee okay..? so me and my bff went to the pool withh him andd my bff's boyfriend kepttt staring at mee and smiling at me...and when i got home after the pool he texted mee and said heey. i really like you. you are nice andd really beautiful. andd i'm like..um thank you? but my best friend is your fricken gurlfriend! andd hes like yea yea i know..but i like you WAY more. and i'm likee umm.. you shoulddn't be liking meee.. and he's like oh well. and then he saidd wanna go out? but don't tell. and i'm likee.. umm i don't know..


(because i really liked him too secretly)


So yeaaaaa.. i don't know if i should tell my bestfriend that her boyfriend likes meeee. but the other bad part is that i really like him D:


trust me..(: if you saw him you would LOVE him:D


so yeaaa.


help me out?(:


andddd i'm sorry about how lonqq my details are.. o.oMy best friend's boy friend secretly loves me..! HELP D:?
That's the thing. If you went behind her back, it would betray her trust but you'd have the guy without anyone knowing... unless of course, she found out. and if you tell her what he's been doing, neither of you will probably ever speak to him again cuz she would finish him and he would be mad at your for telling.





you're going to have to put your feelings aside for a while and tell him straight that you are not interested in betraying your friend! and to only speak to you as a friendMy best friend's boy friend secretly loves me..! HELP D:?
I'd just back off and leave him alone your bff's friendship means way more than any guy so I doubt it's worth ruining
Okay.


The way you typed really annoyed me.


And no,


If you were a good friend...


You wouldn't even think about dating him.


0_o
this looks like if it comes from a moviee.. lol !


i dont think you should go out with him , i mean there


are other great guys. and if you go out with him he mite do the same thing to you . find a hotter a girl and totally forget about you.


you wouldnt want to risk yourr friendshipp anywayss..


thats my opinion / hope it helps
Well, I think you should tell your best friend that he's a cheater. It's totally not fair to her that her boyfriend is a loser.





As for you, since he went out with your best friend, he's pretty much off-limits. If you ask her if it's okay with her- even if she says that she doesn't care, she probably does. I've been in that situation before.





I say tell her for sure. Otherwise, she'll find out and NOT be happy. You could lose a best friend. A good friend would tell her what's going on. If you really care about her- tell her.





Goodluck%26lt;3


Follow Your Heart.
ok first your no friend no less a best friend to entertain the idea of him flirting with you .if you love your best friend you shoulda put him in his place ..I'd hate to have you as a friend secondly yes you should tell her don't keep secrets they have a way of coming out and making you look like the evil one .also you do know what comes around goes around .imagine if it was you and she did this to you .who is more important him or your friend ,it's not guaranteed that in a year you will be with him is it worth losing some one that will .


DON';T BE SNEAK !!!
it really comes down to this best friend, or boy friend.


leave him.





while girls will be there by you side forever


guys come and go. be his friend


and keep your friend


and if he's really the one he'll understand
Hi,


Yes, it is really cool to have a guy like you, but he is disrespecting his gf, your bf. Don't tell your gf because you will lose her friendship and it could backfire on you - he could say that you came on to him or that he never came on to you. This is a messy situation and your gf is going to need you when she ends the relationship. This guy is a player and if he plays behind your gf with you, be assured he will play behind your back. Don't think he is worth your friendship with your gf. Best Wishes!
I don't know about this...It's a Traingle Love?...BFF%26lt;---%26gt;BF%26lt;---%26gt;YOU??? That's Tough Love...If you go with That Guy, you would be called: ';Betrayer'; from you BFF. And If you don't...I dunno...the Guy is gonna be sad or mad? And you like him, so...it's weird and sad...WAIT...You should ask him if he really likes you or not. He's like Two Timing, he has to dump someone first! Or Someone's gonna get hurt badly if he doesn't pick right now! He has to make-up this problem right now! Or you and your bff's friendship is going to break all because of one Hot Guy?!
First of all you said you got your BFF's boyfriends number. That right there is a no-no. You are not supposed to be texting and calling your BFF's boyfriend. You instigated this from the beginning. You are coming on Yahoo Answers for someone to tell you that you are planning on doing the right thing, but you are not. What you are doing is morally wrong. If you do this to her you are not a good friend. Plus if he is so quick to leave her believe me you will be nothing to him in a few weeks time. The simple fact that he doesn't want you to tell shows he isn't trying to leave her. In the end you may be the one on the outside. He will tell her that you were a bad friend and that he just wanted to show her how you are. Then you won't be friends with her and he won't have anything to do with you because that is grimey. It has happened.
tell your bestie he likes you, and ask her what you should do. if she is a true friend, she will let you have him :) hope i helped! good luck!

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