My best friend is in love with me and I might be feeling the same way about him?(cont)?

Ok so I'm going to keep on going with my story and I'M SORRY ITS SO LONG!!!!


Ok so one day he tried to kiss me and he almost did but I pushed him back and I started to leave because i was angry at what he tried to do and I told him that this was getting to be too much and maybe we shouldn't be friends anymore(I didn't really mean it) and he chased after me and screamed out ';No, please I love you!!!!'; he screamed it out with such love I turned around to see his eyes watering and the love in his eyes and I told him I didn't really mean it and I hugged him tightly and he said that he didn't want to lose my friendship, It breaks my heart to see him this way, I'm probably gonna write about feelings and emotions now so yeah, I feel so bad that hes in love with me, me and my friends see how much he loves me and they said I would have it great if I was with him, like I said we are like brothers and we are together alot hanging out, we go to eachother's houses like almost everday, and that probably won't change, we get along so well, he had a girlfriend before( I think he broke up with her because he was in love with me) and me, my girlfriend and him and his girlfriend would always go double dating( my girlfriend and his girlfriend are best friends just like me and him are best friends) the four of us are always together, we are like this little group, our other friends tell us that we should be in a soap opera, the 4 of us have had alot of dramatic moments, me and my best friend don't always get along, like we have had a lot of problems, like at one time me and his girlfriend were apparently hanging out too much, and he actually got jealous of me, and we almost got into a fight for some other situation, our girlfriends have also had their share of fights, and me and my friend also have fights with our girlfriends once in a while, we actually kinda traded girlfriends at one point, me and him fell in love with eachother's girlfriend and we broke up with our girlfriends cause we were already having problems with them, we have both kissed eachother's girlfriends, we have all had problems and arguements with eachother, I guess we make it all dramatic, but we always stay together in the end, we get along super great most of the time and we all love eachother to death and at least its never boring, it is like soap opera with us, oh BTW I think our girlfriends are more like friends with benefits, Im rabbling off topic here, but yeah I'm the first and only guy he has ever fell in love with, I guess hes only gay for me....


But now what is happening is that I'm falling in love with him too. And I'm falling in love with him for the same reasons that hes in love with me, he is a great friend and has always been there for me and because I just do, when I was sick he would go to my house everday and take care of me and help me feel better, now when he touches me and hugs me for no reason(just to wrap his arms around me) I kind of let him(or let it last a little longer then push him away) in fact when he touches me I get a warm feeling all over me, I sometimes even find myself smiling at him, there was another time he tried to kiss me and he succeeded, I wasn't fast enough to move my head away, the thing is it felt great, I didn't let him know that though and I got a little angry and asked him why he did that and he said he was sorry and just smiled at me with that cute face of his, oh btw this what he told me when he said he fell in love with me, he told me we needed to talk and he said


';George.........ur a great friend and you have always been there for me and your my best friend ever.....and I cherish the time we spend together and I always think about you during the day and at night, you are pretty much my whole life...........and, Im in love with you...............this is really sad for me, I am going through the same depression he went through, I have never fallen in love with another guy before either, and I love the time we spend together(which is almost everyday now) and Im starting to think about him during the day like he thinks of me, but I feel scared to tell him and everyone else, I still love my girlfriend but....I think I love him more and I don't know what to do, I'm so confused, the more time I spend with him the more I love him, I sometimes feel this great urge to rip my shirt off and rip his shirt off and make love to him, I don't know why I feel this way...please I need some help and advice...





Ok so my questions are 1.Can you be gay for one person? 2.I'm pretty sure my mom is kinda homophobic so can anyone tell me how I can tell her that I'm in love with my best friend? 3.How exactly should I tell my best friend? 4.How do i tell everyone else and should I? Oh and if you have any other advice please tell me and thanks oh and thank you if you read everything, it was super long but I just needed to vent


I know that neither of us are straight, I guess we are bi but a little more on the straight sideMy best friend is in love with me and I might be feeling the same way about him?(cont)?
1. Yes, you can be gay for only one person, though it is likely over time you would discover other guys who are just as amazing.





2. Don't tell your mom about this unless you and your friend end up in a long-term relationship *and* you are on your own. I've seen guys get kicked out of home or disowned just for being gay.





3. Just say, ';Hey, I have to confess something to you. I'm still working through my feelings, but I have an incredibly huge crush on you and feel like ripping your clothes off.'; =P





4. Don't tell others until and unless you and your buddy decide to date.





Finally, *if* you get romantic with your buddy (and you will), agree *beforehand* that it is on a trial basis, and that you will agree to keep your strong friendship NO MATTER WHAT, so that if either of you is weirded out or has second thoughts, you will agree to stop the romance, forgive each other, hug, and go back to being awesome friends.





Listen. If you don't try romance with him, you will always wonder. Be careful, and guard both your hearts! But...do try this out, agreeing to remain dear friends even if the romance doesn't work.





Oh, one more thing. I'm quite sure you and he will get naked. So when that happens, take it slowly, please.





First, just snuggle naked together and jerk each other off.





Second time, make it oral. Sigh...I love oral. =)





Don't do anal unless he *loves* to be on bottom, and/or you end up in a steady relationship, because when you are penetrated the first couple times it can hurt quite a bit at first. Then later, it can become amazing and feel incredible, at least for some guys. If you do anal eventually, please switch off and do both top and bottom so that you *understand* what it is like for the other guy.





Hugs and good luck!My best friend is in love with me and I might be feeling the same way about him?(cont)?
well he might be bi or maybe gay but doesn't wanna be gay so says hes bi idk and u can task people who you love only u know but i had the same problem kinda but it was worst (with my cousin) if u need help email or IM me lejoser@yahoo.com and you don't wanna tell people you are gay(bi) until you are sure and you have to diside(idk how to spell it) you like him or her :)
no,i think hes bi


shell probably get over it sooner or l8r


just tell him!!


dont tell anyone untill u sort it out with him ur family and closest friends or until ur ready





let ur feelings out sometimes its the best thing to do
Well there is a whole scale Between gay and straight ... Most gay people are attracted to there first Friends ...there is love there because of the friendship ...We as people love the ones closest to us... But you also have these sexual feeling ... ...Honestly... Falling in love with your best friend is tricky because there is that conflict between relationship and friendship because of the change of that ... you have someone who loves you and if you have those same feelings in your hart ... you should explore that gay or Straight ... you have to be true to your hart there is nothing wrong with it either way ... and if your mother is homophobic don't tell her ... at least until you can be safe and secure both in who you are and also financially
Yeah dude that was long. REALLY long.





And the both of u are bi. There is no question of that.





Answers (at least my opinions anyhow):


1. Yes. Seen it a lot.


2. Don't tell her. Your love life aint your parents business. She don't need to know.


3. U should just straight up tell him u love him....And how u love him.


4. Why should u. It ain't their business. They ain't livin your love life.





Advice? Yeah I do got one piece of advice. Learn how to condense.
just tell him everything that you told us. Umm lets see. Maybe keep it between the two of you first to see if it works out before making it public. If your mom is homophobic I wouldn't bother telling her because she might try to keep the two of you apart.
Michael A... i love oral too... like it's hella awesome!!!! and dude... your lucky... go with your heart and mind...