Are there any women out there who have fallen in love with a man who was initially their best friend?

I'm talking about having a best male friend for a while and then later realizing he was boyfriend material. Do any women out there have that experience? What was it like? How did you eventually see him in a different light? Did he do something special to make you realize it? Or did you just figure it on your own? Did the relationship work out in the end? Or do you think it was a mistake? Romantic comedies seem to teach us these types of relationships work, but I've never had any evidence in my own life to back it up.Are there any women out there who have fallen in love with a man who was initially their best friend?
It is amazing! I was friends with him for a long time, then we became best friends! Then after a while we both fell madly inlove with each other! And it is working out great! If we did ever not work out we would be just as close as before. We are both strong enough and want it enough! AND this is the best decision i've ever made.








IT WAS PRETTY WIERD AT FIRST, WE WERE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER SO THAT STUFF CAME NATURALLY. IT TOOK US A FEW YEARS, WE KNEW EACH OTHER AND WERE FRIENDS FOR 5ISH YEARS, WERE BEST FRIENDS FOR ABOUT A YEAR BEFORE WE STARTED DATING.....WANT TO KNOW MORE YOU CAN EMAIL ME :)Are there any women out there who have fallen in love with a man who was initially their best friend?
Yes he was one of my closest friends we shared secrets and jokes but never kissed or had sex or anything until we started to get really close and started to have awkward moments until we eventually kissed and tried dating we fell madly in love and now 6 years later we are married with 2 small boys. we have great communication because we were friends first and constantly joke around. its cool
I fell in love with one of my best friends, but it failed after 7 months. Atm we are very close friends still, you will probably find that it is better to stay as friends but it could work... nothing stopping it
yes yes yes , it sucks major :S i don't think even mentionching the subject with them is worth it , you end up loosing your bestfriend and its just not worth it
Noooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooo oooooooooooooooooooooooo
yeah i did too now i lost him i think
Never. Romantic comedies, like advice about women from your mom, is not useful in the dating world. The cold hard fact is that they immediately slot you into either a lover or friend category. Lovers can turn into friends over time, but friends can't turn into lovers. There are exceptions to this, but it's about one in a thousand, so for all intents and purposes accept that it isn't going to happen or you're destined for massive disappointment and repeated let-downs in your love life. You will not be the exception to the rule. You have no evidence it works because there is no evidence it works. Go forward and seek other women my man!