In love with your best friend?

I have been best friends with a guy for about 3 years. I'm only 20, but we always joke about how one day we will date, fall in love and get married because we both agree we are perfect for eachother. There are alot of reasons we have never actually dated (1. I was in high school/he was in college, 2. He had a gf/I had a bf, 3. I was hours away at another college...this list goes on). Anyway, he has had a gf for about 8-9 months now. She doesnt like me which has causes my friend and I to really grow apart. Anyway, this situation is soo hard for me because I am so in love with him and I hate seeing pictures of him and his gf, being around them, talking to him about her, etc.... What should I do? Cut him out of my life? Ignore him? Try and make him jealous (which I have been doing for the past year?)In love with your best friend?
Find your own man that is (SINGLE) and (MOVE ON)In love with your best friend?
No, No and No. Keep your friend in your life and enjoy his company when you can. If you are meant to have a relationship with him, it will happen. In the meantime, be the bigger person and respect his relationship with her. Be nice to her and don't diss her. Don't get jealous if he is seeing her and can't see you. She is his girlfriend now and hopefully he will continue to have you in his life. Show a little class and maybe a new Mr. Right will come along.
thats tough, but what i would do: steal him from his gf and ask him out, besides in love and war everything is fair.
Going by what you wrote, you were friends with him UNTIL he got serious about another girl and THEN you decided you wanted him.





Have you ever watched ';My Best Friend's Wedding?';





Go rent it and watch it immediately. Your answer is there.
follow your heart. I married my best friend of 4 years and its been wonderful. His ex and I are actually friends, and she's ok because she knows that we are better for eachother than they were. Thing is HE needs to let go of her. And it has to be because he doesnt love her, not because he wants you.
give him his space/ignore him. if he really cares about you as a friend or more this will bother him and he should eventually ask you about it. most guys don't like to be ignored by someone they like and it sounds like you are good friends. if you are he should value what you two have more than what him and his gf have. I go with the friends first idea. anyways...I'd just give him some space and don't hang around him or her so much. If he asks what's wrong just tell him you didn't want to get into the way of him and his gf. If he ends up really falling for her, then you may just have to wait it out and move on. eventually he'll come back even if it's just as a friend.
Best friends do whats best for the friend. If you love him, he probably knows it. However if he continues to date others then he's probably not ready to accept your love as more than platonic. She is probably just a jealous type, steer clear to preserve the friend ship. Until he is ready, you'll be on the outside looking in, and wanting what he's not ready to commit to.





Do Not Play Kid Games (jealousy)





They say patience is a virtue, but true love usually knows what to do.
well honey its always happen in life. and this is clear cut matter that some one else is inhis life and she is part of his life. so you stay out of his life and dont lose your friend by to love him. keep your friendship for long life and be not only good friend but best friend. be with him.
Does your guy friend know you're in love with him? And do yo know how into his girlfriend he is? Despite how long he's been with her he may have feelings for you, but I'm just saying this hypothetically. I don't want you to get your hopes up only to have them crushed. If I were you, I'd tell him how I felt and say, ';I just wanted to let you know.'; Then leave the ball in his court. And I wouldn't try to make him jealous because that's playing mind games and guys are not a fan of those. Good luck!
dont try to make him jealous, just be there for him like you always have(as a best friend) and then when they break up and you think the time is right, then tell him how you feel. right now with him in a relationship, all your going to do is grow farther apart from him if you let your feelings be known. just be as patient as you can be till you cant be no more
Honestly, if you two have a mature friendship, you should just be straight with him. If he feels the same way, then he will probably find a way to get out of his current relationship. If you say nothing, or try to make him jealous, then you will probably push him away further. I think best friends make good partners if you do it right. Good luck, and if doesn't work out, just know that the right guy will come eventually. You just have to be patient.