Ahh can someone help me? I have fallen in love w/ my best friend and I need some advice on what to do!?

Alright so I am at a loss. I have become really good friends with this guy at my college and at first I had no feelings for him but we have been hanging out more and more and I really have fallen in love with him.


this is where the problem starts, our group of college friends have brought up the fact that he really likes me and ';they can tell'; but I saw subtle signs that he did. I then became a really good friend of his and I'm falling in love with him. I don't know what to do. Please don't say 'tell him', because I am not that type of girl, I can't do that. I'm pretty positive he likes me also but he is a shy guy too. Is there anything I can do or say other then the obvious tell him move (which I truly can't so your answers there wont help) to let him know that I am falling in love?





I am just at a loss. Please help me. I think about him so much during the day and what we could actually have if we just got over this small hurdle. Other tid-bit of info. He fell for his best friend who was a girl in high school. She turned him down and they were still good friends throughout college. Now she treats him horribly because well in the first place she never really liked guys, girls were her thing ( she kept that from him and lied to him for 5 years about it) but she just treats him with no dignity and I think he is scared since he likes his best friend again (me) and that I could somehow break his hear like she did. For example he made the comment to me one day, ';I always fall in love with my best friends, no matter what has happened in the past'; (basically referencing me) but how do I get this to work out!!!





Please help me, because college is ending soon, we don't live far but I don't want him to slip away. I've never felt like this before with anyoneAhh can someone help me? I have fallen in love w/ my best friend and I need some advice on what to do!?
At some point one of you will have to let the other know how they feel. If you really feel this way, then you must swallow your fears and speak up to him...or at least drop some serious hints.





It is better that you do not leave people to guess about such things, yourself included.





If you are going to attempt to have a serious relationship with him, someone will have to cross that line.





Why miss out?Ahh can someone help me? I have fallen in love w/ my best friend and I need some advice on what to do!?
Kiss him!
well i know you don't want to hear this but just TELL HIM how you feel. you have nothing to lose =]
Erm okay has he shown u any OBVIOUS signs he likes u if so then maybe you should just slip it out when ur talkin


or get another friend of urs to tell him or speak to one of his friends and ask if he's mentioned anything about the way he feels....


sorry if this doesnt help and good luck girl and hope u get him one day ;D