What do you do when you fall for your best friend. ?

I've always grown up being kind of a frumpy outsider thinking i didn't have many friends. One kid i had one of those silly write on your notebook in hearts crushes on in 7th grade just happens to by my best friend now and I'm out of high school and about to go to college. in seventh grade we knew of each other and we were merely acquaintances. Now This past summer I had gone out to eat the night before my graduation party and afterwards he (J) called my phone. now J had just recently been my (girl ) best friend's boyfriend. Awkward but i agreed to hang out with him at 2 in the morning ha ha . I never expected that the night would have ended with me making out with him or laying with him or anything. When I got home i was told my uncle died. It was terrible and he was the only one there for me , even as i got drunk at my own sad graduation party. And he's pretty much been there for me ever since. He ended up living at my house for a couple of months slept in my room and in my bed. At the time it was just a comfortable situation i loved falling asleep in his arms. and i thought nothing of it. then we started sleeping together and again i just thought nothing of it. now things went down hill in that department. because through out it all he's had numerous girlfriends. and cheated on all of them with me :/ not the greatest feeling in the world but the fact is I've completely and utterly fallen for him and im too scared out of my wits to say anything because right now hes my closest friend and im sure he has a small inkling about this but i dont know how to tell him that im not happy unless hes with me , i spend 95% of the day thinking about him and the next time i'll see him. it sucks . Hes the only person friend or person i've slept with that has ever treated me really good.


What do i do :(


and yes right now he has a girlfriend What do you do when you fall for your best friend. ?
Well obviously he has feelings for you, but why hasn't he asked you out? Does he only call when he wants to mess around? Do you want to date someone who cheats on all of his girlfriends?





If you do say something and he doesn't feel the same way about you, your friendship will be awkward and possibly ruined.





If you don't say something, you will never know.





Only you can make the decision to talk to him about your feelings. Just weigh your options.





I really hope whatever you decide, brings you happiness :)What do you do when you fall for your best friend. ?
you are already in friend circle.. so just move on .. n if you really want him to be in ur life .. keep him as a friend.





(Mike)
i have also fallen for my best guy friend....i think so ill watch this question





can u try to answer mine?


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqVYg_.pMm82NjIpYe5s1prsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081125173805AApvAp1
I believe that all you are is a booty call. I been in this situation before, but you are not going to die. You may think about him all the time my question to you is: Is he thinking about you? Think about it if he has not caught something now and given it to you, What makes him think that he will not catch something in the near future and pass it to you? My advise go out with more mature men. Do not play into his game, You are to young for this. Just in case you were wondering I do have a life.