Tuesday, August 10, 2010

What happens if you fall in love with your best friend...an your a lesbian?

my best friend knows im gay. she also knows that i like her. but shes not very open about herself. i cant figure out if it freaks her out or if shes gay/bi an likes me too. sometimes she acts like shes homophobic an other times she acts like shes more of a lesbian than me. i have no idea how to figure any of this out. any advice?What happens if you fall in love with your best friend...an your a lesbian?
Wow, that would confuse the hell outta me too...When shes having her 'acting like a lez' moments, try JOKINGLY say ';Dang you act more lez/butch/wateverr than me!'; or you know improvise the words with the way you talk....Observe the way she responds...She mite try to brush it off and then when you just cant take it anymore be blunt and say ';Are you lesbian because you act it...'; and name some of the ways/times she has acted that way...But dont ask it with the tone/attitude that you hope she is cuz you like her too...ask her with a sense of curiosity...mm I hope that helps, just tried to give you advice on what I would do if I was in that situation =]What happens if you fall in love with your best friend...an your a lesbian?
if u r a true lesbian u wouldnt fall in love with your best friend.
What you need to do is get together with her somewhere, where ya'll are comfortable because if ya'll are best friends then there should be some hang-out place where ya'll go, it could even be your house. But no matter where this place is, you need to just ask her, be straight forward; you already said that she knows you're gay so you don't have to worry about outing yourself, and if she is your best friend, then she shouldn't take the question offensive and tell you the truth.
try to kiss her....if she freaks out that means she is not alesbian ,but if she kissed u back that means she loves u too...and do not worry that will not finish ur friendship...
i have to agree with nira... hoes and bros gotta stay seperate. i fell in love with my best friend and some things happen and long story short we dont talk anymore at all. when i lost my gf i lost the best friend i had...i regret losing the friendship more than anything.....bottom line ddont fall for your best friend...bad bad idea

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