How would you tell your friend you fell in love with them.?

How do you tell one of your best friends you have fallen in love with her. With out screwing up the friendship. We both have kids her 3 me 2. I have been divorced for seven years her one. I would do anything for her or her kids. My kids and hers all get along great. She has however sinse the divorce developed a wild side that is out of character for her. She is 38 starting to hang out with 21-25 year old group. What can be done to let her know I care and she means more to me that anything. Do you have any suggestions.How would you tell your friend you fell in love with them.?
say it now or you'll be sorry later.... you had this friendship for a long time i hope she will understand what you mean.... if she thinks it doesn't work you have to move on........How would you tell your friend you fell in love with them.?
well you could bring her flowers saying that you love her and call her and ask her on a date with you, but be sure to go to somewhere private like a kinda famous reataurant for excusit food, when your there talk to her, make conversations really fun and not boring, but be sure to bring a gift for her when your dining a nice chain or braclet should do the trick and give it to her when your conversating with her you know let her be suprised, and then experss your feelings to her be sure not to trip!
Have a heart to heart talk with your friend, and reveal to her how you feel about her, and your concern about her aberrant behavior.If she flies off the handle and tells you to mind your own business, then you know that this probably isn't the woman for you.
Sounds like she is trying to relive her youth. If you are good friends, then tell her of your concerns. Doesn't look like a good example for the kids.