How do you fall out of love with your best friend if you found out he was gay?

He said he loved me back, but recently told me that he thinks hes gay, so now what? I know I personally didn't turn him gay but...how am i supposed to still act normal around him, without freaking him out that Im still in love with him?How do you fall out of love with your best friend if you found out he was gay?
Just because he's gay doesn't mean you have to fall out of love with him. It just means that you can't love him in a romantic way. . . Just love him as a friend.How do you fall out of love with your best friend if you found out he was gay?
from the FAQS on this website link:


';What can I do to make a gay person change?


Of course, you cannot make anyone change. They must be motivated for themselves to want to change. But you definitely can play a very important part in assisting Christians to overcome homosexuality or lesbianism.





First, you can pray for an unsaved homosexual person and share the gospel with them. If you are relating with a Christian struggling with this issue, you can pray for them, too. Pray God will give them the courage and perseverance to achieve sexual abstinence. Sexual activity usually covers deep wounds. Once activity stops, the ';pain-killer'; of sex wears off and underlying emotional pain can surface. Be there to listen and support them in this process.





Pray God will help them see and find biblical resolution to underlying issues that led to a homosexual orientation. Learn what you can about these problems, and find someone with expertise that can counsel your friend. Pray the Lord will help them re-connect with His original design and purpose for them as a man or woman. If you are the same gender as your friend, you can play a tremendous part in his or her healing just by being a role-model of what a godly man or godly woman is like. That means being vulnerable about your weaknesses, aggressively pursuing personal maturity, and above all, seeking to grow in your relationship with Jesus Christ.





Don't discount your ability to help someone leave homosexuality and into all that God plans for their lives. Be a friend: encourage, confront, listen, share. Go side-by-side with them through the challenging adventure ahead.';
I think he's trippin'. First he says one thing, than he says another thing. I think he lied to you when he said HE THINKS HE'S GAY. Those are gay don't think they are gay, THEY KNOW THAT. I think your friend is scared of you for some reason, why don't you try talking to him and straighten things out, maybe it can work out.





Otherwise, if he's really gay, you need to start looking for someone else cause whats not gonna, it's not gonna work.
you have to stop loving him
Well use those womanly charms and see if he's gay or just being a confused freak. Let him take a walk on the right side of sexuality and see what he thinks. If you aren't quite into him that way, take him to a strip club and let him see some first rate poontang up close. Should cure all that drama about beign gay.
My best friend of six years is gay, and let me tell you when I met him I loved him and wanted him for myself. I had suspicions he was gay but I didn't want to believe it. When he confirmed the fact, I had to deal with it, what else was there to do, I still loved him just the same, he was still the same person as before. You can still love your friend and he still loves you, that hasn鈥檛 changed.





You just have to find another guy who can love you sexually as well. Sometimes that鈥檚 the only difference in the two relationships. It鈥檚 great because you can have both and your boyfriend can鈥檛 accuse you of cheating!





Keep in your mind that you shouldn鈥檛 always rely on your friendship with your gay friend as a substitute for the love that special someone can only provide.