Tuesday, August 10, 2010

What will you do if you find out that the one you love and your best friend had a relationship and lying on u?

I know this man for 10 months and we are best friends at the same time we are co-office workers. We are so close together like we are brothers. Then one day i find myself falling deeply in-love with him. Yes i know I'm gay and he knows my situation though i didn't mention that I'm starting to feel something different to him. I respect and love him truly. One day i bring him to our house, there he see my 2nd sister my best friend (we are living in the same house) though i met her only 8 months from now.





I find him interested to my best friend and one day they go out for a date, my best friend told me she say everything and what i feel to this guy. And i ask her how is the date, she said ';nope I'm not interested to this guy and also he, maybe he is doing this just to make you jealous to forget your feelings for him';.





Then i talk to this guy and tell him what i feel. He replied your loving a shadow and i can't love you and he rejected me in short and it hurts me so much. Then he said he like my best friend but i told him please respect my feelings and situation this is so hard that i love you and you will go to my best friend that i lived in the same house. He don't care and just care about what he feels and doesn't matter if he hurts me or not. When i ask my best friend she said that there is nothing between them though she gave her number to him. Sometimes i think that they are calling each other but my friend says just i need to trust her and there is nothing between them.





I know I'm gay and i don't have any right to protest. But i also need respect. They need to respect what i feel for them being my friends. I'm not a toy they can throw away after using, i loved and i get hurt.





Actually i don't care about him anymore, the problem is i need them to be honest with me, and i don't want the three of us lying to each other specially my friend that i trusted so much. If they are thinking that they might hurt me if they say it they have to think that they will hurt me more if i find out that they are lying to me.





I don't know what would be the best decision. Is it to trust my friend that there is really nothing between them and the guy is not calling her according to her or just give a way to them and leave the house. I want to move on and forget everything and start a new life. I want peace of mind and not living in the house that whenever her cellphone rings and she go out of the room i think it was coz of him. Is moving out of the house fair enough to them and to me if there is something between them? If i trust my instinct i think there is but i hope i was wrong. This selfish guy didn't think that we might lose our friendship and never care about what will happen next.What will you do if you find out that the one you love and your best friend had a relationship and lying on u?
.You have every right to feel betrayed and hurt.Sadly in any relationship you can only be hurt by people you trust,love and respect.Cheaters never prosper.They deserve each other but she'' come crawling back

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