I was wondering if it is alright to be in love with your best friend while still being friends.?

So I fell in love with my best friend. I know bad move blah blah blah. The thing is she knows and I know yet we continue to be really close and super good friends, which is good. But she has a boyfriend who she loves very dearly, and I'm very good friends with him. Which is sort of the bad thing since I fell for his girlfriend





I confessed my love for her on several occasions over the past year. And she's fine with it. In fact we both can acknowledge how great of a couple we could be. And time to time when were hanging out or even going out we pretend to be boyfriend and girlfriend sometimes. We both agree that we don't want to get caught up in a stupid love triangle. And were both very content with just being friend, but yet we do these things which I'm sure her boyfriend wouldn't be happy with either of us. Is this right? Are we both to blame? Should we stop being close when we enjoy each others company so much? Were both confused, and we want things to stay how they are, but were afraid we might be hurting her boyfriend, and we just don't want to fudge anything up.





Any Advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :)I was wondering if it is alright to be in love with your best friend while still being friends.?
response to your advice:How would I know, I strongly believe in God...I'm not saying you'd be left out of love...just that...sometimes thing may seem impossible.





Advice: pretend to be someones other when they already have one, I would be very upset if I were her boyfriend, yes the blame it set on both, not just you. You told her your feelings and you both acted upon them. Sorry you are in this predicament.





God BlessI was wondering if it is alright to be in love with your best friend while still being friends.?
As long as you don't kiss her or take her out or anything while she has a bf, it's fine.
you both are in big trouble if the guy finds out, and it's good you know that. So i think you should distance yourself further away from the couple. tell your friend that you two should stop doing what you guys do and she should follow her heart and decide whether she wants to be with you or the other guy. if she chooses you, then really good for you and you are the total bomb, man! but if she decides to stay with her current beau, then too bad you should stop those feelings and find another girl, and its up to you whether you still wanna be frends with the girl, altho i dont recommend it, by the looks of the situation now.





Good luck!
lol i had to answer this one oh man boy are you playing with fire and you dont even realize.You are using flammable stuff and i should tell you stop and dont cross lines other then being freinds or your going to regret it not only someone getting hurt.But your freindship is going to break you shouldnt be comming onto your freind thats why there freinds.





you play with fire be willing to get burnt like a big man
This is going to get out of hand, and soon. She must have feelings for you too, or she would have put a stop to this as soon as she found out how you felt the first time. You should run in the opposite direction. You are going to hurt your guy friend, you are going to break up their relationship, and then you two will never be able to trust one another after that happens. And for good reason. Neither of are trustworthy! Think about it! Are you a person of character or someone who follows their whims and doesn't care who he hurts in the process? Would you want your friends to treat you this way if things were reversed? It's not worth it, believe me. You will live with regret for a long, long time.